What Is Shaping You?
A familiar idea can become so comfortable that we stop asking whether it is true. It may protect our pride, excuse a habit, or help us avoid a change we know we need. What happens when we let God examine the beliefs we have learned to defend?
In Romans 12:1–2, Paul begins with God’s mercy and calls us to offer our whole lives to him. Chris Alderman explores how the Holy Spirit renews our minds through God’s truth, helping us recognize the influences shaping us and respond with humility, obedience, and love.
Sermon Notes
Big Idea: Because God’s mercy comes first, disciples offer every part of life to Him, allowing the Holy Spirit to renew their minds so they can resist the world’s mold and live in obedient truth.
Overview
A popular “Mark Twain” quote no one can trace shows how easily a convincing lie spreads—and how seldom we pause to ask, “Is this true?” Chris presses that same question into our spiritual lives: What comforting or self-excusing lie have we protected? Romans 12:1-2 presents two shaping forces—the pattern of this age and the transforming work of God. Since mercy precedes every command, believers respond by presenting their whole selves as living sacrifices. That surrender includes giving God permission to contradict our opinions, renew our minds through Scripture, and produce visible obedience even when it costs us public approval.
Key Scripture
- Romans 12:1–2 — The foundation of the whole message: mercy first, then living sacrifice and mind renewal.
- John 15 — The sobering warning: following Jesus may bring the world’s hatred.
- 2 Timothy 3:16-17 — The equipping text: God-breathed Scripture teaches, rebukes, corrects, trains.
Main Points
1. God’s mercy precedes everything.
Paul’s “therefore” (Romans 12:1) looks back on eleven chapters describing humanity’s sin and God’s rescuing grace in Christ. Obedience is a response to grace, never its price. Before any command—mercy.
2. The age has a mold, and our hearts are vulnerable to it.
- Culture steadily supplies its own definitions of truth, freedom, identity, success.
- Experiments in “choice blindness” prove sincerity is not infallibility; confidence is not confirmation.
- Protected lies sound right, feel right, or win applause: e.g., “What feels right must be right,” “Hidden sin can stay hidden,” “God exists to approve my plans,” “A faithful Christian must earn the world’s approval.”
- Jesus forewarned disciples about being hated for His name (John 15); rejection for sin is one thing, rejection for holiness is another.
3. Renewal requires surrendered minds and the Spirit’s use of Scripture.
- “Living sacrifice” means no locked rooms—habits, money, ambitions, private conduct, and thoughts are all God’s.
- Free Methodist language: entire sanctification = the Spirit purifying divided loyalties and filling the heart with holy love.
- Scripture’s fourfold work (2 Timothy 3): teach truth, rebuke error, correct drift, train righteousness. Agreement without attention is not discipleship. The Bereans (Acts 17) combined eagerness with discernment.
4. A simple rhythm for ongoing transformation.
- Open your Bible. Read the passage before the opinions. Note context, repeated words, commands, promises.
- Keep a humble heart. Pray, “Show me where resistance lives in me.” Don’t seek an endorsement; seek correction.
- Let your mind be renewed. Ask, “What is the author saying? Why? What response does this text seek?” Bring honest questions; don’t shield preferred answers from examination.
- Live an obedient life. Knowledge must bear fruit: humility, love, generosity, forgiveness, courage. A marked-up Bible means little without a transformed life.
Application
The call: Bring every protected lie into Christ’s light, surrender it, and allow the Spirit to renew your mind through daily, humble engagement with Scripture.
Head — Recognize that feelings and cultural consensus are unreliable judges; Scripture is the always-on filter for truth.
Heart — Receive again the mercy that reached you first, and invite the Spirit to expose resistance, heal divided loyalties, and fill you with holy love.
Hands
- Open and read the Bible every day, paragraph by paragraph, in its context.
- Pray specifically: “Lord, contradict me where I am wrong.” Repent of the lie He exposes.
- Obey the revealed truth even when it risks reputation, comfort, or opportunities.
Reflection Questions
- What lie in your life most easily gains protection because it feels comforting or socially affirmed?
- When did you last allow Scripture to contradict a strongly held opinion? What happened next?
- How do you typically react to criticism—do you discern whether it is persecution or needed correction?
- Which step of the rhythm (Open Bible, Humble Heart, Renew Mind, Obedient Life) is currently weakest for you?
- If following Jesus cost you approval or opportunity this week, how would you respond?
Prayer
Merciful Father, thank You that Your grace meets us before any command. Expose the lies we have sheltered, forgive our resistance, and by Your Holy Spirit renew our minds. Give us courage to open Your Word daily, humility to accept Your correction, and love that overflows in obedient lives even when the world misunderstands us. We ask this in the name of Jesus Christ our Lord. Amen.
Recorded October 11th, 2026
Message by Chris Alderman
Scripture: Romans 12:1-2